Ive been seeing my boyfriend for almost a year now. The first few months we were really happy, always hanging out together and making excuses to see each other between our busy schedules. But for the last month or so, hes become really distant. He tells me hes busy when hes really not. When we do hang out he is quiet and grumpy. Hes started hanging out with a different group of friends; most of them female. I think that he may be cheating on me. How can I tell if he is? And if he is cheating on me, is there anything I can do to win him back?

- Worried in the Soo.

Dear, Worried,
All of this might seem unnerving, and for good reason. A drastic change in his attitude towards you can be frightening and be cause for worry. The best advice I can give to you is to confront him with your concerns. The best relationships are the ones with communication between the two partners. If he isnt cheating on you, this is a great way to start building up that trust again and work out some of the kinks in your relationship. And even if he is cheating on you, talking it out with him may help you realize that you dont want to be involved with him anymore, or help him realize how much he is hurting you and help him to stop doing that. But the best thing to do is to talk. Assuming things will only make things more difficult, I guarantee it. If you jump to conclusions without all of the evidence, including his side of the story, I can promise you that things will end badly. Good luck!  
